Mommy-to-be Cheat Codes

At your first appointment with your doctor you are handed of a very long and very intense list of things you cannot even think of doing while pregnant. We’re talking foods to avoid, drinks to avoid, activity to avoid, even thoughts to avoid. So over the past few months I’ve come up with a few “Mommy Cheat Codes” that has pregnancy feeling not so restrictive anymore!

Caffeine:
Okay, this is a hot topic issue for many moms out there but it is something to keep in mind when getting pregnant and staying pregnant. My OB told me that one regular size cup of coffee a day is totally fine. That regular cup of coffee can be a Starbucks drink or a home-brewed cup.

Now, I am a coffee addict and one cup of coffee a day does NOT cut it for me. So…

Hack: DECAF

Drinking my coffee drinks decaffeinated saves me any guilt, grief, and allows me to drink 2 to 3 coffee drinks a day. (For me, coffee is more about taste and the ritual than a caffeine boost.) Starbucks makes all there drinks in either fully caffeinated, half regular half decaf, or fully decaf. May not seem like rocket science switching from regular to decaf, but I gave up coffee cold turkey for my first trimester and was only reminded of this option by a girlfriend of mine that works at Starbucks, she offered me a free drink and told me that she’d use decaf instead of regular coffee. Mind blown. Good-bye guilt.

Cold Sandwiches:
I don’t know if it’s knowing that I can’t eat cold deli meat and it’s the “forbidden fruit” aspect of it, but I crave cold sandwiches all the time! At least twice a week I would kill for a cold turkey sandwich with lettuce, tomato, avocado, on whole wheat bread with tons of cold turkey slices. But cold deli meat is a big no-no when you’re pregnant. Listeria is extremely dangerous for pregnant women and their babies so it’s something to avoid, big-time!

HACK: #1 toasted sandwiches

While it doesn’t quite fulfill the “cold sandwich” craving I get all the time, it is a safe alternative to sandwich cravings. Most sandwich shops offer toasting as an option so I always ask them to double toast it to make sure the meat is heated properly.

HACK: #2 Veggie subs!

This has been my favorite alternative. Getting all your favorite veggies on a sandwich and avoiding meat altogether. I asked for the tomatoes and avocados to be sliced thick to kinda create a more “meater” texture to the sandwich. I love it and it tastes great! And is pretty healthy too!

Soft cheeses:
That pesky listeria warning again… soft cheeses like brie and feta are not allowed for expecting mommies L

HACK: Pasteurized cheeses!

As long as the cheese has been pasteurized you’re good to go! I love Greek salads and feta cheese is a must! I was able to find pasteurized feta cheese at most stores like Ralphs and Trader Joes.

Raw seafood like fish and shellfish:
Raw fish could contain E. coli or Salmonella, definitely nothing to mess with when pregnant. Avoiding food like sushi or seared prepared foods is important, which wasn’t very hard me… I don’t care much for sushi or any under cooked seafood.

HACK: Don’t eat it!
Okay, this isn’t really a hack, I don’t care for sushi so I don’t feel restricted here. I do eat a serving of healthy, lean, low mercury count fish every week for those healthy omega 3’s!

Cardio:
Exercise is important while pregnant, but it must be done properly. Running and getting your heart rate up can be dangerous while pregnant. Running poses some threats to mommy and baby, although you don’t have to rule it out altogether. If you are an avid runner before becoming pregnant your usually fine to continue that activity, but my exercise routine is sporadic at best. My work schedule isn’t predictable and I travel a bit which makes it hard to commit to everyday exercise.

HACK: # 1 swimming!
Swimming is an amazing way to get cardio into your pregnancy life and it’s completely safe! My OB told me it’s the one exercise she encourages her mommy’s to do! My hubby is a swimmer (high school varsity swim team and varsity water polo, yes I’m bragging J) so he and I head down to our community pool around twice a week and swim lap together for 30-45 minutes. It’s awesome exercise and we always leave feeling great!

HACK: #2 Walking
I love walking, and my husband and I just bought a home on a beautiful lake that we walk around anywhere from 4-5 times a week. The walk measures about 2.5 miles and is really nice because, unlike swimming, allows us to chat and talk together. Living in southern California weather is almost always perfect for a walk so we take off everyday for a walk and talk about our day, plans, the baby, work, etc. It’s our special time together that we both look forward to, and keeps us in the habit of open lines of communication. Always a good thing in a marriage J My doctor encourages me to walk everyday for 30-45 minutes to keep my activity up.

Worrying:
Worrying for a mother-to-be is unavoidable, especially for first time moms, but keeping worrying and stress levels down is important during pregnancy. But it happens. I had 5 girlfriends, no joke, 5 girlfriends go into pre-term labor and all of them delivered their babies at 32 weeks. I was terrified I would be next! I told my doctor my concerns and she immediately stopped me, “Do not think about that. That is extremely rare, and I’m very surprised that happened. I don’t want you thinking about it for another minute.” “…But…” “NOPE!”

HACK: Positive thoughts and prayers

It’s hard not to worry about your baby, not before he’s born, and not for a second after he’s born. I do everything I know to keep him safe, and I let God take care of the rest. There are always unforeseen stressers that pop up naturally in life. But the way you react to them is up to you, my first response is to take control and stress about it until it’s resolved. Not exactly healthy, and not exactly godly either. I’ve decided to be intentional with my worries and stress and give them up to God.  It’s hard, but it feels so much better knowing that the creator of the universe is taking care of my doubts, worries, and concerns instead of me.

A sneak peek at our maternity photos!
Another hack, get photos done! 
I love being pregnant and I'm so thankful our friend took 
these photos to remind me of this incredibly special time for Chris and me. 

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